“You know, it’s almost spring. You really need to start working out every day so you can get in shape for planting season.” my in-shape, husband Joey said.
“Mmmmm hmmm….” I mumbled back without looking up from the school materials I was looking over. In my head, I thought to myself, “I have plenty of time to get ready for planting season….waaaaaaay more time than anyone could need to get in shape.”
Well, you can imagine where this is heading! I spent the rest of the winter putting off exercising, and spring arrived faster than a bolt of lightning. Before I knew it, I was sending my students out the schoolroom door and telling them to enjoy their spring break!
Despite the fact that I put off exercising all winter, I was pretty sure that I could just “wing it” for all the planting sessions that would be happening on our farm. I would be helping to plant thousands of onions and hundreds of pounds of potatoes. We would be doing all of this planting by hand, but did this bother me? Naaah!
Planting began, and about halfway down the first row, I realized I had made a slight mistake. By the end of the first row, I realized that things were not going to work out as I had planned. “Winging it” had turned into trying to survive it.
As the rest of my family members passed me singing songs with cheery smiles (I am not kidding.), I had to face reality. I had to admit it. Joey was right! I should have gotten in shape!
I’d like to say that this year is the only year that this has happened, but I have to be truthful. This same scene replays itself almost every year! Honestly, you’d think I’d learn my lesson!
The truth is, gardening season and I have a complicated relationship. I love our farm, providing fresh produce for local folks, and helping others learn about becoming more self-sufficient. I love watching my husband make hundreds of beautiful plants grow in the greenhouse and in the fields. I love hearing him share his gardening knowledge with other folks. He is truly amazing! But, people always assume that I since I’m the farmer’s wife, I am also amazing at growing things and have hundreds of nifty garden tips.
Well, I’m here to tell you, that’s not exactly true. Wanna learn how to do a vintage hairstyle? I’m your gal! Need to know how to make an angel food cake from scratch or how to churn butter? That’s me! Need to know something about how to teach in a modern one room schoolhouse? I can fill you in! Want to know the best way to keep your tomato plants up and going? Ummm……we’d better ask Joey.
I am great at many things, but being a garden expert doesn’t exactly hit the top of my list. Ya’ll, I have even killed aloe vera plants before. True story. Thank goodness for Joey! But also, thank goodness for me. Thank goodness for me? Yes, for me! Even though Joey is definitely the driving force behind our little farm, we work together to make things come alive.
He plans and directs, I (along with the rest of our family) help. I send out emails, keep our farm Facebook page updated, and keep our website going. He helps folks with gardening advice. I help folks with vintage clothing advice. Okay….so maybe that part about vintage clothing advice doesn’t happen very often, but I’m pretty sure that I have helped a couple of ladies figure out where to order vintage style dresses from.
My point is that it takes us both. Even though I may have been out of shape for planting season…again…I did get some things planted and was a little bit of a help. I guarantee if I asked Joey to update our website or send out a farm email to all our subscribers, he’d be a little out of shape in those two areas. We each have been blessed with different gifts and when we work together, it makes everything work out just right.